The great sleep experiment

November 26, 2007

So, the whole crib-in-our-room thing is going pretty well.  I’m still tired, and the baby’s still waking up all.the.time, but I feel like we are at least working toward a solution.  Seriously, does anyone out there have a baby who seems to wake up every two hours?  Because I?  I do.  He’s not usually hungry when he wakes up, and he’s not awake and happy and playful.  He seems angry and tired, but just unable to soothe himself back to sleep.

I think I mentioned before that he refused to sleep unless I nursed him.  Already, I’ve seen a big improvement with that issue.  Last night for example, he nursed, had his bath, and then we tried to settle down for bed.  Jason and I sat in our bed right next to him, and he played in his crib.  It took a while (more than an hour) but he finally put his head down and slept without a single cry!  Hopefully, he’s getting more comfortable in the crib and learning how to fall asleep on his own.

He woke up around 11:30, so I nursed him and put him back down.  He cried a little but I patted his back and he fell asleep.  Unfortunately, he was up again at 1:30.  Then again at 3:30.  I’m proud that I didn’t pick him up between 11:30 and about 4am.  I just talked to him and patted him and he did very well.  I realized, though, that he was hungry around 4 so I nursed him and put him back down.  And get this!  He then slept for more than four hours without waking up and crying!  Woo hoo!  He hasn’t done that in months!

This process isn’t easy, but I think we are making a little progress.  He’s learning to sleep without my boob in his mouth, and we haven’t had any awful screaming sessions.  I’m just sticking with this and keeping my fingers crossed that he’ll keep improving and sleeping a little longer each night. 

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  • 1. Erika  |  November 26, 2007 at 2:55 pm

    I think it’s a great idea that you let him hang out in his crib while you guys were right there. E loves his crib for playing and stuff…it seems like once that started he was more comfortable at night. It’s hard to remember how old Aiden is. I’m sure I’ve mentioned before we did not even try the “cry it out” until he was a year old, but I wonder if we had would we have had more than a few months of peaceful nights on our hands. Our pediatrician recommended one of those ceiling projector things to give him something to look at to distract/calm him into falling asleep…I could never find one I liked, but I noticed a neat one at BB&B the other day. Stick with it. It sounds like you have the patience and perspective to get through this!

  • 2. happyworkingmom  |  November 26, 2007 at 3:05 pm

    I have to admit, reading these posts make me want to re-think having any more! I remember these days, and they suck, big time! But you will get through them…there is light at the end of the tunnel. My kids each had sleep issues, and my daughter is still not done with them at 4 1/2, so I have no advice…other than at least they do get old enough to understand they are supposed to be sleeping and you can threaten them with no candy the next day if they don’t stay in their bed.

  • 3. Ella  |  November 26, 2007 at 4:16 pm

    Is he hungry? Could you substitute your boob with small bottles of water at night? I’ve heard that that sometimes helps babies make it through the night.

  • 4. janet  |  November 26, 2007 at 8:52 pm

    I like your creative problem solving…good luck! :)

  • 5. Kellie  |  November 26, 2007 at 9:51 pm

    Ella has a good suggestion. He may not NEED to eat, but eating reminds him that “hey, right….I sleep”.

    The projector thing is a good idea. Or the thing (at Target) that attaches to the side of the crib and has sea images or some crap like that.

    I really have no assvice for you. I’ve been blessed with a great sleeper (thank you, someone above!!). Eventually, he’ll get it. When one thing isn’t working, try something else (like you are). Talk to his doctor. Maybe he/she has some suggestions. You said he’s not a pacifier kid? I’m guessing you’ve tried every brand/type of sucker out there?

    Hang in there, girly–I know it’s easier said than done, but it WILL get better!

  • 6. alyndabear  |  November 27, 2007 at 1:11 am

    Sounds like it’s a trial and error process - as someone who knows absolutely nothing about babies, it sounds like you’re doing an awesome job! :D

  • 7. Jane  |  November 27, 2007 at 8:54 am

    Maria has been getting fussier again at sleep time… I think it’s teeth. But we have the fisher price rainforest crib toy (similar to the aquarium one… ) , and it’s great! It lights up and plays music for about 7 minutes… Somehow she turns it on again sometimes too, because we’ll hear it in the middle of the night. not sure if she kicks it when she’s moving around or if she’s batting at it… but it works for us…

  • 8. glamgranola  |  November 27, 2007 at 10:18 am

    I did that exact same thing. It was a long process but made me feel way better than letting my babe cry. I would nurse her on both sides and then lay her in her crib. She protested the first week but I’d stay next to her and sing, rub her back and wait until she was totally asleep THEN sneak out. That helped her get used to falling asleep in her crib on her own but in a GENTLE way. I have no regrets.

    She still wakes up once a night to nurse and she’s 14 months but I’ll take once a night over 5-6 or 7 times. I actually kind of like getting up with her in the quiet, dark middle of the night. It is so peaceful. As long as it is only once! Mama needs her sleep too.

  • 9. Rachel  |  November 28, 2007 at 3:45 pm

    Sounds like you’ve got things figured out. Teaching babies how to soothe themselves and sleep better is never an overnight thing. You’re doing great!

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